Intelligent Words About Marriage

From somewhere on the internets:

I don’t think compromise is the right word. A marriage is a union of interests, not a blending or averaging of them. The couple doesn’t ask “what’s good for me?” and “what’s good for you?” and then try to find something that half-pleases both, but instead just asks “what’s good for us?” Usually works best with the man taking input, maybe discussing, then deciding. Each individual might not get what they want, but they can both be happy knowing that they’re doing what’s best for them.

It’s probably not what you meant, but compromise to me sounds like trying to “equalize” what each gives up in some kind of directionless micro-communism. Better to have a mentality of being on the same team, and just doing what’s best for the team (family).

In life, there are two fundamental forms of organization: control, or forcing everyone to use the same methods for an objective serving a single party, or cooperation, where people work together to achieve a goal, which in complex organizations requires a purpose and principles used to achieve it. Cooperation works toward an idea that may be partially extant, but will never be fully realized, so it can always be improved in its qualitative dimension.

Marriage and family, or even organic ecosystem-like groups like nations, require this abstract but realistic goal such as is provided by the cooperative idea. They fall apart under control because authority creates a backlash and by its nature as one-dimensional, fails to gain feedback from the people at lower levels, and thus makes the top of the hierarchy blind.

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7 Responses to “Intelligent Words About Marriage”

  1. -A says:

    Calling it a compromise is a product of today’s feminist driven feminized society. That is the kind of thing a half-aware woman would say. Unless they are given the upbringing they need, the red pill they need or are just plain smarter than most women: all women are pinkos!!

    “Just a little bit of yours…”
    -Every Woman’s Inner Monologue.

  2. Eduardo the Magnificent says:

    “My wife wanted a cat. I didn’t want a cat. So we compromised and got a cat”

  3. Thules says:

    Women are not mainly loyal to any tribe. They just like winners.

    White women go with black men because in our sports-music-centered society, blacks dominate sports and rap music and dance. Also, our culture is raw and raunchy, and there is no more shame and restraint. So, women are horny for guys with most muscle and biggest penises, and black men have advantage there.

    Among the most popular porn sites is one called BLACKED that features Big Negroes doing blonde women, and it has over 600 million views, which is double the size of the US. And many viewers are white women whose main sexual fantasies now involve the Negro.

    Women are not very tribal. A herd of female deer will stick with the top male, but if that male loses to another male, the females will not follow the loser male but go with the new winner male.

    Same with lionesses. If a lion has a prides of lionesses but lose a fight with a new lion, the lionesses will go with the new lion. And the New lion will kill the cubs produced by the previous lion, now the loser.

    We see same dynamic with Asians. When Asians come to the West, the women notice that white/black men are bigger and more manly than Asian men. So, many Asian women ditch Asian men and go with white men or black men who are deemed superior. That’s female psychology.

    When Germany invaded France in WWII, French women threw themselves at German occupiers.

    When Japan lost WWII, Japanese women went with American conquerors.

    So, when black men beet white guys in schools, streets, and sports, white women lose respect for white guys and go with black guys who are deemed superior.

    In the past, moral culture, shame principle, and racial unity kept white women within the white community. Even if a white woman had jungle fever back then, she tended to remain with whites cuz society disdained interracism.

    But now, not only are the taboos gone but PC promotes interracism, especially between black men and white women.

    As Jews control the media, they want to destroy the male pride and confidence of white men by turning white women into mud-sharks who offer their wombs to black men so as to hatch black babies who will grow up to beat up white boys and hump more white girls.

    Jews love it as they want to destroy white gentile pride and unity.

    Because blacks are more aggressive and stronger, whites need to safe space from them if they are to survive. Race is a sexual product. A white person is the sexual product of white man having sex with white woman. If a white woman has sex with a black man, she will produce a black kid who will side with black community. She is a race traitor.

    So, interracism is an existential threat to the white race, especially as white women in the West now worship the Black Penis as object of sexual fetish. And white cuck boys worship and cheer for black athletes who beat whites in sports and hump 1000s of white girls in colleges and hotels.

    NO more race denial. Race is real, and racial differences are real. In order for whites to survive as a race, white women need to respect and stick with white men. Only white men and white women can produce new generation of white race.

    With integration, black males beat up white males who become cuck-boys. And then, white girls lose respect for loser white boys, become jungle-fevered, and go with black men.

    This is a horrible danger hanging over the West.

    • A herd of female deer will stick with the top male, but if that male loses to another male, the females will not follow the loser male but go with the new winner male.

      Democracy makes losers into winners and the previous winners into losers.

      There is the root of your problem.

    • NotMe says:

      @Thules- Contrary to popular belief, blacks do not have the largest penises. I have it on good authority.
      Last summer, I was flying to Albuquerque and was seated next to a beautiful blonde.I asked her where she was going and she said a rehab place for nymphomaniacs. We started talking. She told me that American Indians were the most well-endowed, and rather than Frenchmen, the Jews were the best lovers. Before we de-planed, she asked my name. I told her it was Tonto Goldstein.

  4. 1349 says:

    A family is a small business. =)
    You have your budget, your fixed assets, business goals, individual tasks. Also, someone should lead.

    As long as the goals and movement toward them exist, the family is safe.